The Fear of The Loss of Love - The Love Connection
June 27, 2008
The Fear of Loss of Love - The Love Connection
Your Personal Love Potion!
This is the fear that has really given me the most trouble to write about. I have had “the block” for two weeks when I think of writing about this one. I have started and torn out various pages from my notebook. It is not because I do not understand where the fear was born. It is definitely not because I lack any understanding in regards to why people do have this fear or why they come to have this fear either. My issues with this fear seem to be so much more personal where this often debilitating fear - The Fear of the Loss of Love is concerned.
You see this seems to be a fear that I just cannot get my brain around. It may be because I have never actually felt it; Love lost during High School or that long-awaited date-gone-bad are really not prime examples of this fear at all. This is a fear that often sends people “over the deep end” and into “fits of rage.” This fear often leads to jealousy and contempt. It has turned the most respectable person into a liar, thief and cheater. It has ruined fantastic careers, great loves and the future of many good people. But that just may be where I have an issue.
Rewind:
I have used the line “Sometimes the good of the ONE outweighs the good of the many” a few times during my writings. This is a line I have used even more so when I do one-on-one coaching or business consulting; and that just may be my Personal Love Potion.
I love myself - I really do! I am not conceited or arrogant or even braggadocios; but I genuinely love myself. This is really the KEY, the SECRET and the basis for not being effected by this disease, or fear. Now - Say it with Me! “I Love Myself.” Now say it with a big ole smile on your face; “I Love Myself!!” When you start loving yourself you will be much better prepared to love others, to feel secure and confident in their love and be secure and confident enough in yourself to realize that you can now control this fear as there will always be love in your life. It may change and may hurt sometimes, but your life will always be filled with love.
Of course this disease/fear lends itself to many different incarnations and this is exactly where your faith when added to your confidence and self esteem become your Personal Love Potion! Your personal-confidence is important in all aspects of life and aspects of business but even more so when it effect the “affairs of the heart.” The Fear of the Loss of Love is defeated each time you use your Personal Love Potion.
Add faith to self esteem: Personal Love Potion. Mix Will Power with your Personal-Confidence: Personal Love Potion. Now try a cocktail of Will power, Confidence and Faith with a twist of Self Esteem and a dash of Concentration: Personal Love Potion Number 9! You are protected and protecting yourself by all that which you have learned and by the application of the set of general practices we have worked on to this point. You are starting to realize that each and every lesson we work on is just another ingredient in that recipe to your success. The ingredients can be modified to make your ultimate recipe - your personal recipe even, but these ingredients are your basic building blocks to your greater Ya-ttitudeTM and your greater Future!
This is not a fear I wish to spend much time on as it is one that affect the heart and the head, but is easily understood and easily controlled by the use of your Personal Love Potion(s). I do wish to shed a little light on three of the most common Symptoms of the Fear of the Loss of Love, but a quick-and-easy guide is all that is needed as I believe we do all understand the basic premise with this fear.
The finding of fault in friends, relatives, loved ones, business acquaintances and workers upon the slightest of provocation or error, without any cause whatsoever (a mouthful) is a clear-cut signal that you are falling prey. Go back to the exercise on concentration - use it to focus and relax, you can control yourself when you control your thoughts and your mind. Do not let it ever go as it is yours to control no one else’s.
One that you may not have thought about is gambling (we did touch on the lying and stealing and cheating - as more obvious ones). Gambling and taking unnecessary risks are another signal that the fear may be upon you. You need to more because you believe you need to impress your “love” with material things whereas you can impress so much better with the items of the heart and soul. Do not spend beyond your means or incur debts that you will never be able to repay. Those debts of the heart are equally as expensive. Pay close attention if any of the following occur: Insomnia, lack of persistence, weakening of your will, lowering of your self esteem, loss of self control a lack of self reliance or snapping and general loss of temper. Go back to the concentration section and work on those exercises! And finally Jealousy.
This habit of being suspicious of friends and loved ones with no reasonable evidence or sufficient grounds - That is jealousy! You do realize that often Jealousy is just a form of dementia - you don’t want to be demented - drink of the Love Potions - Mix them well - use them often and be all that you can be - and more!
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Holly: Just What the Doctor Ordered
June 20, 2008
Holly: Just What the Doctor Ordered!
I have a blogging friend who I have been reading and working with for some time now
. Her name is Holly and she writes this great personal blog called Holly Traveling- Living with Myself. I have actually been reading her blog longer than I have been blogging. Her most recent post is titled Sucking You In and it gave me one of those “Hmmmms” that can often send me into a writing spree; and I am thankful, because as I am working diligently on finishing up the “Fear of the Loss of Love; Love Connection” Post I am having a “bit of the block.” So this was a great diversion and inspiration; it is right on target for what we have been talking about and working on over the previous few weeks.
The post is almost a perfect review for much of the work we have started to put in place for the road to your ultimate success - your ultimate Ya-ttitudeTM. I could not have written a better example of how we can use all of the Ya-ttitudeTM we have learned and are learning about if I tried. And there is no reason to try, there are so many wonderful people in the world who just need a little direction, a little push, some love and a great big hug - and then they are off to achieving their ultimate success.
Ya-ttitudeTM-ism: Ya-ttitudeTM will give you A little direction, a little push, some love and a great big hug everyday; come and get yours - remember to give your too!
Holly started her post with an ad-of-sorts. Yes she was looking for someone who could either get her some thick skin or maybe let her know just how one could acquire or grow this thick skin. See it seems that she has allowed others to control the one thing she has full ownership of and the one thing that all of us can control completely; Our Minds. One of the ideas that all us are working towards developing in order to reach our ultimate success is the knowledge that we control our mind. We do not allow anyone in there without our permission and we block out - lock out - all negatives.
Remember: No one can hurt your feelings without your cooperation, willingness and permission!
No one can cause you to have any kind of emotional reaction without your first giving them permission to do so. You alone are responsible for your feelings and emotions. When you know what you plan to do with your life, you will not allow annoying situations to deter you from your goals for long. If you set ambitious goals for yourself and work enthusiastically toward them, you will quickly realize that you don’t have time to allow petty annoyances to upset you and keep you from your objectives. —Napoleon Hill
When we read the 4-Step Plan to Success we realize that one of the most important steps in being successful is the ability to keep your mind tightly closed to all negative influence. Those negative influences can come from places you least expect; friends, family and acquaintances. Stay away from the naysayers, the gloomy Gus and the wet blankets. Do not let anyone rain on your parade. You are working to be the best you can be and you know exactly what you want to do and are working hard on getting there. Keep yourself surrounded by positive and you will get positive and when you get positive, you will be able to give positive. You need to remember it is all about the Give and Take in life, which is that which will get you to where you want to be.
Ya-ttitude-Faith: Positive Faith through the removal of negatives that are blocking the flow of your faith to both your conscious and sub conscious mind.
I think one of the simplest things you need to keep in your mind-arsenal is this thought: Those who are trying to embarrass and criticize you are suffering from their own fears, a general lack of self confidence and are in desperate need of some Ya-ttitudeTM. If you work your way back up this article you can give them a little push, some direction, show them your love and never forget the hug. It will change their perspective and their attitude.
As Holly continues on she really takes her time to point out the difficulties in growing this thick skin and just how hard that it would really be to do. And she is not wrong. But it is not “thick-skin” per se that one needs but instead the tools of success in one’s first-aid kit of life that would be of much better use. You need to learn a few simple things and then practice them, until you have them down to a science. This is a good time to read the series on Concentration. There are a few posts and each of them are filled with exercises that are designed to fine tune the mind, the power of your will, your concentration and your Ya-ttitudeTM. It will become part of you and you will know exactly how to react and how to act whenever one of these negative situations attempt to infiltrate your guard.
I know that Holly has been really trying hard to fight the forces of procrastination and the issues with motivation. She has been diligent in her efforts to put forth a maximum effort at all times and that is really what we all need to do - always! Of course we are going to make some mistakes, but the only mistake you can ever make is not continuing on. Making a mistake should be looked upon as just a simple step in the recipe to success. The mistake is a clear instruction of just how NOT to do it next time. So it is not a mistake but a guide to your ultimate success. The biggest problem you could have is the inability to make a decision. Curing Abulia or the inability to make a decision is a key to your success. Don’t worry so much about the specific decision but think about making the decision and then carrying it through. You can try to develop a Maxim of Effort and it will take you on your mission of learning how to decide quickly and moving forward feeling confident in your decisions.
“So, anyway, if anyone happens to know of where I can find some, just let me know. Until then I’ll just keep on nursing my bruises,” is how Holly’s fantastic post ends and to that I add just this.
Remember: “He who rules his spirit is greater than he who rules a city.”
And that is because you cannot rule the outside until the inside is under control.
So as we have said before - “Sometimes the good of the one outweighs the good of the many.” So you - the one - must learn to understand yourself before you can be of great assistance to the many!
Thanks for the Inspiration Holly!
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Fear of Illness and Disease; The Hypochondriac’s Oath!
June 11, 2008
Fear of Illness and Disease
The Hypochondriac’s Oath
The Fear of Illness and Disease may as well have been dubbed the Hypochondriac’s oath, as all Hypochondriac’s live by it and most who have this fear may be Hypochondriacs. This fear is very closely related to two other great fears; The Fear of Death - The Universal Fear and the Fear of Old Age. Both of these fears will be studied in the coming days.
You may have acquired these fears from simply living with someone who has suffered from some illness or disease. You could also have acquired these fears by spending much too much time reading about illnesses and diseases, or watching the news and reading the daily papers in search of the next great plague. It has been often proven that the simple thought that you have “caught something” will give you “something” and those who scour the papers and scour the internet for outbreaks of salmonella and the bid flue, inevitably come down with the symptoms.
The actual fear itself it quite easy to understand. I mean the thought of being overwhelmed by some disease and not being able to work, or support our families and enjoy life is really something that has deeply infected our fear-receptors. If you ask most physicians they will tell you that many of their cases are people who believe they are ill, or have contracted a news-worthy or new-fad disease. Flu outbreaks usually include a major part of the populace that have flu-like symptoms because they hear these symptoms every two minutes on every channel on the television or read it on every-other magazine cover or newspaper headline.
The Power of the mind is incredible whereas it relates to creating an illness or fear of an illness where there was not one before, or where there is no reason for one to exist. Just ask the now Famous Courtney of Courtney Hears a Who? I believe that experiment drove home a very interesting point. And on a related note, just think of the ancient and current sects that Hex or curse someone and the person being cursed is so sure, so convinced that these curses and hexes are true that they become ill, feel the pain and often die, from a mind-driven disease, not an actual illness or disease.
I know that many of my readers are nurses and I have heard many stories from them that while they trained, and each time they learned of new illnesses and diseases it was inevitable that someone went to the infirmary with the symptoms of said disease. Once told they had been told that they were fine, or given the placebo, the cure was miraculous. It is also that “faith” and total lack of the fear of illness and disease that makes our great Doctors and Nurses possible, if they feared every germ, illness or disease, they would never be able to function. They have put mind over matter and overcome their fears where illness and disease are concerned. They do not get ill or do not contract disease, because they are immersed in it everyday and have absolutely no fear from it!
Good News All! Just as easy as I made it for you to understand how and why we can have these fears, I will show you how they can be eliminated. I have 6 signs that will point to these fears and as these are understood and eliminated, replaced with knowledge and faith, these fears are gone forever!
I will call the first one Modern Medicines or The Curse of the Well-Stocked Apothecary. Your choice, both are pretty catchy and very true. Just how many frequent flyer points have you earned at CVS, Walgreens, Rite Aid, Genovese, Publix Pharmacy and Wal-Mart Drugs or whichever major drug-selling store there is where you reside? Are you one of “those” people who run to the pharmacy for every brand new “cure-all” and remedy that is released? Is New and Improved or Extra Strength tattooed somewhere on your body? This is not only a symptom of the Fear, but one of the worse possible crutches as well. I wonder Ginkgo Biloba, Garlic Pills, Vitamin C Pills, fish oil, shark oil, oil of Olay - whole grain bagels, low-carb diets, high fat diets and A Beach of your choice diets - are you all-over these cure-alls like kids to pokemon? I will tell you - there is nothing more important in life than taking care of you - but seeking every new fad, pill or cure that is released will just reinforce your fear and create a bad and costly habit, that will be very hard to break.
A general Lack of Exercise is another signal. You “feel” ill, so you cannot exercise. What a vicious catch-22. The general fear of Illness will keep you from exercising which in turn will create an unhealthy situation. High blood pressure, obesity and raised cholesterol to name but a few real diseases can be brought about by your lack of exercise. And why aren’t you exercising? Get off that backside and start exercising!
We have spoken about the benefits of Auto-Suggestion and positive affirmations. And we will talk more about them in the next section but just as auto-suggestion can be a positive motivator; it can work in the exact opposite way as well. If you are telling yourself that you do not feel well, you’re coming down with something, if I catch that… etc well - then - you are now working your sub conscious mind into a negative-frenzy and soon, you will become quite ill. That is why you need to tell yourself that you are getting better in every way, every day! I tell my self the very same thing 20 times before bed and 20 times as I awake. No specificity, just “I am getting better in every way, every day in every way I am better!
Hypochondria is one of those signals that cannot be cured from a bottle, shot or suppository, though suppository would be the method of choice. The cure is really just positive thinking. Faith in yourself and what you are doing. Hypochondria is a disease brought on by deep negative thoughts, we all know how to get rid of the negative now - give positive to get positive and get positive to give it right back!
Woe is You. Do the slightest pains or discomforts keep you in bed or at home all day? How many days of work or school have you missed for what can really be deemed a slight or tiny problem. Is there some condition you believe you have keeping you from your goals or attaining your Ultimate Success? If you decide to dwell on those conditions and surrender to them, you are finished, through, Kaput and worse, you have set yourself up to accomplish NADA!
Now I live in the real world and teach in the real world. I understand that some of these conditions and ailments are real obstacles to overcome; and it will take great effort, focus, concentration and will power for you to overcome them - but you will!
Remember: Every new skill you learn while you overcome your condition(s) will serve you well throughout your trek to your Ya-ttitudeTM and your Ultimate success!
Alcohol and Narcotics addiction(s) seem to be a popular defense against the fear of illness and disease. Sad thing here is it will bring it on faster than anything else you decide to hide behind. You cannot cover your fears with drugs or alcohol. Eventually you crash and those problems you have tried to hide are still there; now multiplied out by this new bad habit you have acquired.
You can gain absolutely nothing by trying to cover up, hide or run from your pain. Seek it out, find the source or sources of the pain; learn more and acquire specific knowledge by reading, studying and understanding it. Do not be afraid of it, embrace it. Yes, I know and realize that this is a time-consuming process, one you will need much work on and with to finally bring its elimination to fruition. Once you work through this your life will be better and you will free up time, money and energy for that greater Ya-ttitudeTM of success you desire.
You, your family, your friends, co-workers, neighbors and your world will be all the better when you finally rid yourself of the fears from Illness and disease, and I know you will do it, you now have all the tools you need and the Ya-ttitudeTM you desire!
Next Up:
Fear: The Love Connection
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Courtney Hears a Who?
June 6, 2008
Courtney Hears a Who?
An Unscheduled visit to The Fear of Illness and Disease
Before I finished the article on The Fear of Illness and Disease and before I decided to post it up for all of you to read, I wanted to go back and read some of Napoleon Hill’s thoughts on the subject. After reading his ideas, I decided I needed just a little more and went on to read Atkinson and Coue. All three authors seemed to have manipulated our innate fears of illness and disease through the same experiment. They called it a study and today we may call it a prank but either way it went something like this:
The experiments started by first eliciting the help of three comrades (they called them colleagues). These colleagues visited the same person (called the victim) three times during the same day. Each colleague visited once; for a total of three visits. This was conducted over a few short hours on the same day but with varying degrees of time between the visits. Each time one of the colleagues visited the victim the same question was asked of the victim; “What ails you? You look terribly Ill!”
The first questioner received an answer similar to this one: “Oh Nothing, I am all right,” and they both continued on their way. When the second colleague came around and asked the same question; “What ails you? You look terribly Ill!” The answers were much more like “I am not quite sure, but I do feel under the weather.” The third time the question was asked it was always answered “I really do feel quite ill;” or something to that effect.
Now I really did have my doubts. First, these experiments are a bit old, done between 1912 ands 1950; and we have come a long way baby… right? And more so, people are supposed to be more in tune with themselves now, when compared to way back then…right? Boy was I wrong with that thought process; and I am really sorry Courtney, I hope your “feeling” better.
Yes, I did it. My local coffee shop’s Barista-girl went home around one this afternoon and according to her, “did not feel well at all, very tired actually.”
I walked in this morning like I do every other day; with a smile and a “good morning” for the young woman behind the counter. Only difference was today, when I approached the counter I said, “Courtney, wow, tough night last night? Baby Keeping you up, you really look bad this morning, sorry,” and I smiled. She said she feels pretty good and glad that today is Friday, so she only has to work until three. I took my coffee and walked out. I had two accomplices also do to Courtney what I did, which in fact is almost exactly what Hill, Atkinson and Coue did. The second time around “I don’t know, I kinda feel tired and a bit run down, maybe I am coming down with something, I am not sure,” was the answer to the very question/comment I made only an hour before. And by the time colleague number three had posed the exact same question to Courtney, she was flushed, and she decided that she really did not feel well at all, and had to go home early.
(Colleague number three is the Owner of said coffee shop and was in on this experiment with me from the beginning. So Courtney did not lose any pay, and I just go off the phone with her boss, who spilled the beans to Courtney, who may be a bit mad at us all, but all of a sudden feeling all the better. )
Yes, I agree, it was mean and I owe Courtney an apology and probably need to take her out for a lunch, but it was a successful experiment.
Try it on an acquaintance of your own, if you doubt it - but you may not want to let it go quite as far.
It is great evidence that suggestion and auto suggestion are two mighty powerful forces when it comes to making us do things. Now we need to look at how exactly we can use these for positive effects on our Ya-ttitude!
When we meet again - I will go into the signs that point to the fact that you may be suffering and how to understand, control and eliminate these fears!
Next time:
Defining The Fear of Ill Health and Disease and eliminating it!
The Hypochondriac’s Oath
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Fear; Criticism and Embarrassment – Be Gone!
June 1, 2008
Fear; Criticism and Embarrassment - Be Gone!
The fear of criticism is almost as universal as the fear of death and just as destructive as the fear of poverty. The fear of criticism can and will rob a person of all their initiative. This is THE fear that destroys a person’s creativity and imagination - or at least the desire to act upon them. Criticism is an interesting “entity” as it seems so many people have a stockpile of it and are more than willing to share it with anyone who will take it from them, and are more than glad to hand over big doses to those who have no interest in acquiring any at all. Criticism so closely resembles free-advice as it seems everyone has some and is more than willing to hand it out with no service charge or V.A.T attached.
When we initially discussed the 4-step process to your success we touched on the need to keep your mind tightly close to all negative influence. Those negative influences can come from places you least expect; friends, family and acquaintances. Here is one of those grand examples of just what I meant way back then. It is interesting as that part of my 4-step process to success received the most “criticism” with many people telling me that they understood that they needed to keep their minds free of negative influences, but those very same people told me that I was wrong and keeping your family close no matter what their opinions might be is a better and clearer road to their success. Well here it is - I ask you - If your family is telling you that your ideas, your plans, your ultimate goals are foolish, insane, impossible or something that you just can’t do, show me the benefit of their constructive criticism. It seems that quite often family members are among the biggest offenders of this transgression. Parents often do their children irreparable damage with their criticisms and follies of embarrassments.
The old saying: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never harm me” is one of those myths that need busting. Long after the bruises and the cuts have healed those mental scars are left behind, often to fester in our subconscious. The criticism of children by their parents should be looked at as a crime, as for any parent that works to build an inferiority complex in their children or any children for that matter through the use of criticism and embarrassment need to be punished for that crime.
Employers who understand human nature tend to get so much more from their employees by fueling the positive fires and staying as far away from the criticism as possible. Constructive suggestion done from the positive works, criticism focused on the negative fails, every time. Parents can and do accomplish great results with children using the positive-constructive approach. Criticism tends to build fear in the hearts of people and is great at developing resentment, but will never build love, devotion or respect.
Criticism and Embarrassment - Be Gone!
The fear of embarrassment is really a sub-fear of the fear of criticism, but I have received so many emails regarding the fear of being embarrassed that I decided that giving it a deeper look would help us all understand that there is no reason to ever feel embarrassed, hence no reason to fear criticism. These two fears really take little work to understand and then once understood, we are on our way to putting them to rest and eliminating them from our lives. Again, this is a look-inside ourselves and learn process; see if any of these 7-signs are part of your repertoire and if they are - you know exactly what to work on to eliminate being fearful of any criticism and all embarrassments.
Flashback; High School - Ya, you remember too, don’t you? For me it was this pop up down the third base line, Benny had a bit too much mustard in his hot dog (for those of you who are not fans of baseball, it means I was quite the b ig shot when I played), and with an incredibly stupid and showy attempt at a routine fly ball, I let it drop and the game was lost. I felt Embarrassed like I was not going to be able to live my life ever again.; but I got over it and learned an incredibly valuable lesson - I make a much better first baseman and use two hands no matter what - I know preach that to the kids I coach; TWO HANDS! Maybe it was braces or you were awkwardly tall for your age, too short, too fat or simply too skinny? Man-o-man do I wish I knew then what I know. Teaching youth my Ya-ttitudeTM is now something I really focus on. I try to instill lots of positives into their lives, listen we all remember that being a teen or a young adult in our twenties was not an easy transition and though it seems tougher to teach today’s youth, I have continued to work on it as hard as I work with my clients.
NOTE: As an adjunct to this post I am going to launch a page that will be filled with all of your stories of embarrassing moments and you can send in those stories as I will launch that page over the next few days. It is an opportunity to show you and everyone else that the fear from embarrassment is just to be ignored!
The Seven Signs:
Being self-conscious is the first of all signals. I recently spoke about some exercises that can be done that will help with controlling nervousness and unwanted or even uncontrollable body movements. Concentration on Controlling Yourself will help you immensely! It teaches you to be under control and stops those movements of the eyes, hands and other limbs that you are doing uncontrollably. This is generally expressed by being timid or nervous in conversation and when meeting strangers.
A few glitches in your pleasing personality will signal issues for you as well. You inability to make decisions, which can be helped by reading The Abulia, Decisions Made Easy post. If you find yourself Side-stepping issues and using the all-to-easy “agreeing with others” approach without careful examination of their intentions or opinions that will be a definite warning of the second sign.
A general Lack of Poise is the third sign. This is usually evident by an issue with your voice control, nervousness in the presence of others and a triad of “poor” - Poor Memory, Poor Posture and Poor Mind Control. Work on these with a visit here: Concentration; Ya-ttitudeTM-style!
I mentioned the issue of Keeping up with the Jones’ in the post Fear; I Ain’t Scared of No Poverty. This sign is all about you and your Extravagance. If you are in the habit of spending beyond your means and limit because you want to be accepted then time to look inside and stop!
Initiative and Desire (Concentration 102: A Ya-ttitudeTM of Desire) are the key focal points of success. A general lack of either and both of these - well you guessed it - the Fifth Sign. Desire and your Maxim of Effort will take you all the way to your success. Do not be afraid to use them - they are your life’s-blood and first-best option when it comes to defining YOUR success!
Do you feel inferior; to your friends, boss or coworkers; to anyone? Well here it is Sign Number Six! An Inferiority Complex which is usually expressed by over-seeking approval from others points to the fear of criticism and embarrassment. You will tend to brag; bigger car, bigger home, bigger words whatever it is you need to be bigger and better. It is designed for you to seek approval from others. Key here - Love you. Once you have figured out that you are the best person you know, the best person you can possibly be, then others will find it easy to love you for you -as- you love you for you now too. Sometimes the good of the one outweighs the good of the many, especially when the One is you and you are trying to find yourself. Find yourself first, and then others will find you too!
Remember:
They don’t care what you know, until they know that you care!
Finally a universal Lack of Ambition gives us the seventh sign. Mental and physical laziness, Procrastination and delays in reaching decisions are the start; but worse are the beginning of a well-defined network of gossipers and others to criticize and be criticized by. Here is the Negative begets Negative in full swing. Surround yourself with positive and you will always get positive. Be sure to always give positive and you will always get positive too!
Ya-ttitudeTM-Faith: Positive Faith through the removal of negatives that are blocking the flow of your faith to both your conscious and sub conscious mind.
We have all suffered through embarrassment, but once understood and ignored, it really just goes away. Ya - this on really is just that easy. Fear of embarrassment rears its ugly head way too often in life, but you already have faith in you and in what you do, you know you are the best you can be and are always trying to get even better, so why be embarrassed - simply a waste of time and energy. You are my best friend, wife, husband, boss and lover - I know you are wonderful and so do you - hence - never a reason to be embarrassed - ever!
Remember: Those who are trying to embarrass and criticize you are suffering from their own fears, a general lack of self confidence and are in desperate need of some Ya-ttitudeTM.
You might want to tell those who are going out of their way to try to embarrass or criticize you that they need to visit this Ya-ttitudeTM blog and inject some positive into their life before they speak another word to you.
So - ignore them; surround yourself with positive energy and praise! Don’t let those fears from Criticism and Embarrassment sap and of your positive energy, and of your Ya-ttitudeTM. The further you remove yourself from the source the sooner and quicker these fears are gone. Have faith in you and your journey - I already do!
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